Set Your Couple Type and Pronouns
Pick the couple description that fits you and tell Wendor your pronouns and your partner's.
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The first onboarding step asks how you'd describe yourselves as a couple. Wendor uses your answer to personalise wording and recommendations - vendors who clearly welcome couples like you show up first.
Pick your couple type
Tap the option that fits:
- Bride and Groom
- Bride and Bride
- Groom and Groom
- Person and Bride
- Person and Groom
- Person and Person
Swipe through the illustrated cards, then tap Continue.

About pronouns
The next two steps ask for your name and pronouns, then your partner's. The pronoun choices are:
- He / Him
- She / Her
- They / Them
- Prefer not to say
These flow into how vendors greet you in chats and how Wendor refers to each of you across the app. See Add Your Names for that step.
Changing your answer later
You can update your couple type and pronouns any time from your profile - they aren't locked in by onboarding.